The comedian took to his Instagram last night to talk about 'frienemies'. What he wrote below:
"Be careful of superficial friends who usually would come to you to
gossip another friend. “Here’s where i lose trust with people. If a
friend comes up to me and says, ‘Oh, my God, did you hear about
Genevieve and Tunde? They’re getting a divorce, and it is ugly. I’m
pretty sure Tunde is cheating,’” You have just shared something with me
that was not yours to share. And my trust for you is completely gone.
A lot of times, we share things that are not ours to
share as a way to build a connection with a new friend who is no longer
close to the other friend that he or she was once close to. Some
closeness are built on talking bad about other people. These is common!
You know what I call it? "Common enemy intimacy.” In this type of
friendship, trust and truth are alien. The intimacy is only built on
hating the same person you both have considered an enemy. Beware of
counterfeit friendship"
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