So, due to popular demand and the unbiased part of me, I have decided to write about Single Men, it took me a while to be able to write anything down because I don’t understand men, may be why I am still single myself.

So, due to popular demand and the unbiased part of me,  I have decided to write about Single Men,  it took me a while to be able to write anything down because I don’t understand men, may be why I am still single myself.

From my point of view there are different kinds of Single Guys,
1: The Guy Who Has To Marry Someone of The Same Ethnicity Or His Parents Will Never Speak To Him Again

2: The Guy Who Peaked Too Early

He’s got engaged right after school hasn’t really played the field much now takes off ring and claims single. Have you seen my……hood



3:The Normal Guy Who Just Hasn’t Met The Right Girl Yet And He Really Wishes People Would Stop Looking At Him With Those Pitying eyes

4: The married Single
Lives alone wife and kids live abroad.

5:The Cynicals. They assume all women are no good and that they are in fact prostitutes.
The Lazy: some guys are just so lazy,  they want to depend on women for the rest of their lives.  Gigolo they are called, their business is women,  how to collect from women.

6: The players: The fine boy Yoruba calls them Faworaja most women like him until they mature and become independent. These women later outgrown his bad boy image and  no longer get  attracted to him.

The Introvert: believe it or not some guys are just scared of women, they know that they are clueless and they have no idea how and where to start so they just
Run off.


The she’s too much kind of Guy: Some guys look at a lady and assume, she is too big too flashy too beautiful she will stress me, or have too many guys fighting over her let me leave her,  she’s a big girl Alaye spec, Eran Agba etc. And that’s it they have lived their entire life through you in just a moment. They look at her and say Happy this one her hands must be full.  I will tell you a secret, 90% of you guys think this way and go for the not so flashy girl,  meaning the not so flashy girls hand is the full one,  cos you men think the same,  no One will sleep with her for me,  they won’t even notice her,  Yinmu,  the very beautiful girl is lonely, because all 90%of you left her assuming shes busy with so much men.  Some of these men have complex and question the capability of the man that they are, and think they are not Man enough to Handle such Women.

Most Men are good at hiding their real feelings,  as you can never really tell their true intentions most of the time. The truth is most of these times they haven’t thought as far as we women would have.

I know one thing though, their heart isn’t as strong as ours, break a guy’s heart once and that’s it,  they are never ever loving again. Even if an actual Angel did come they cannot love again, unlike women that we have the ability to love even with the most Scarred heart.

The confusion of today  is so great, as there are so many great ladies, beautiful, strong, educated, exposed, intelligent. We have to give it to the Guys though, It’s hard to choose from all this goodies. Let us imagine a plate of jollof and fried rice or banga and starch all so sweet and eye popping presentation and all you have to do is choose one. na waec o.

Some guys are sensitive to everyone’s intentions towards them, especially if they are rich and famous, they have no idea which love is true and which love is acting as we women are the master manipulators. These guys can’t tell a very Mother Theresa kind of good woman from a vampire kind of woman. In their mind, they round us all up the same.

While some guys see the good in every lady,  all others see are bad, bad, bad pretending girls.
Truthfully we women too can be very cunning, a lady player is way baddest than a male’s.  You can never catch a woman player unless she wants to be caught know that fact.

In my conclusion, Single guys aren’t so evil like we assume they are just misunderstood. Most of them find it difficult to Understand women, even I don’t understand some of my friends I avoid them, talk more of a man fully understanding what I don’t.

Some feel they have messed it up so much and it’s a lost battle.
Whatever it is you are looking for deep down inside you I hope you find her.  She’s is out there, you just need to be more open minded to see her. You need to let go of your assumptions, you need to ask that too flashy girl out show her exactly how you feel,  take a step,  we are not all bad, most of my friends are amazing,  any man who ends up with my BuBu,  or Abebi  or Bisi,  Or Shalewa or Bumper will be the luckiest Man.

May the odd forever be in your Favour. I pray you find peace Big enough to over fill the void we all feel For guys who no longer knows how to Love,  Remember the Bible says if 1st Corinthians 13:2 (MSG)
“If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing”.

In an Hadeeth for my Muslim friends
By Him in Whose Hand my soul is, you will not enter Paradise unless you believe, and you will not believe unless you love each other.Should I direct you to something that if you constantly did it, you would love each other? Spread the greetings of peace among you.” 

I have no knowledge of any Religion that does not preach Love,  do you know how many times an average woman’s heart has been broken by you Men,  too many times that she can count, Yet she believes in love,  she’s believe you will find her.

This is simply my thoughts based on my experiences and perspectives.